tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post5930427679772024957..comments2023-05-31T07:45:54.628+00:00Comments on Desperate to multiply: Am I a horrible person....Portia Phttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08344574775614817555noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-17645206416145563472007-06-25T12:27:00.000+00:002007-06-25T12:27:00.000+00:00You're definitely not a bad person for those thoug...You're definitely not a bad person for those thoughts (if you are, many of us are). Just honest. The food looks fabulous-- I hope everyone (you included!) enjoyed it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-64873669363756657982007-06-24T03:19:00.000+00:002007-06-24T03:19:00.000+00:00Don't beat yourself up too much. We have all been ...Don't beat yourself up too much. We have all been there. When someone just got a BFP and I got a BFN at the same time was the worst. You really can't help but be jealous - that's just natural I think.<BR/><BR/>However, I worry about people avoiding "kid situations". It seems like these are the people that you are going to want around the most when you are about to be a new mom. <BR/><BR/>Try not to burn too many bridges due to IF - it has taken enough from you already.Nearlydawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17132169507140828802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-5117265618428887422007-06-23T15:29:00.000+00:002007-06-23T15:29:00.000+00:00You're not alone. After Jester, I was quoted as s...You're not alone. After Jester, I was quoted as saying, "Next time, it's someone else's turn to lose the baby." Because that's what it feels like - like there's so many BFNs and m/c to go around, and I've had my fair share. I'm glad you've moved on to realising stats don't work like that. Hopefully we all will.<BR/><BR/>BeaBeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877513815828460269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-91010296240284073072007-06-23T12:44:00.000+00:002007-06-23T12:44:00.000+00:00I feel EXACTLY the same way! I just feel that if ...I feel EXACTLY the same way! I just feel that if it worked for one than its not my turn this time?! Of course, thats a crazy notion...but your mind plays terrible tricks on you, doesn't it? I also feel your pain about going to that party - ugh! Sometimes you just can't believe that all of these people reproduced on their own?! And you just want to kick them all in the shins because of it. :)<BR/>Happy cooking - your pics have made me want cheesecake now!CAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14642622288471660460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-52471146693121291322007-06-23T04:28:00.000+00:002007-06-23T04:28:00.000+00:00Your totally human and what you feel/felt is compl...Your totally human and what you feel/felt is completely natural. Its hard to be empathetic at times. My husband summed it up best for me when I started crying after learning one of my best friends is PG. He said we're just sad for ourselves because it reminds us what we don't have. That doesn't make us less of a person or a bad friend though.<BR/><BR/>Happy Cooking!!Amy Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12842619390377450284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-83654798533209828402007-06-23T02:26:00.000+00:002007-06-23T02:26:00.000+00:00You are not horrible. Not at all. When you are l...You are not horrible. Not at all. When you are left behind time after time, it hurts. I don't think you really wished failure on your friend - you just didn't want to be left behind, again. <BR/><BR/>You did a great job of hiding the broken cheesecake. I have a couple of killer brownie recipes, and you are right about cooking with love. When I am having an off day, things just don't turn out like they should.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36406024.post-30305639179348723292007-06-23T00:49:00.000+00:002007-06-23T00:49:00.000+00:00Stop! I'm drooling over my keyboards. :-) Mr. Kite...Stop! I'm drooling over my keyboards. :-) Mr. Kite, a lawyer too, will be taking a culinary class this October. I'm so excited for him!<BR/><BR/>I have a confession too. I feel the same with other people's BFPs. I'm happy for them but I feel so left out. I seem to say "What about me? Why not me?" and it devastates me to be left alone. From the time I started my blog, I've met ladies who are now pregnant. And the list just seems to go longer. You're not a horrible person... you're only human.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.com