Sunday, July 06, 2008

Sad...

...well, completely distraught actually.

I've just stopped sobbing. My friend has just lost her second twin. Her little boy was born (at 22 weeks) and died last Saturday. Her little girl stayed inside for an extra week but was born and died yesterday lunchtime.

What is wrong with life? She's been through so much to get pregnant with these babies. She and her husband are good, church going people. They've waited 5 years for these babies and gone through 2 IVF's. I just don't get it.

I have no idea what to say to her. There are no words. For now, i've texted to let her know i'm there for her. I'll call tomorrow.

G-d bless them and their tiny perfect little babies who were born too soon.

8 comments:

Betty M said...

I am so very sorry. Life can be very cruel.

Bea said...

That's terrible. Tell her I'm so sorry.

Bea

soapchick said...

I am so very sorry to hear that. How terribly sad and unfair. I don't understand it. Sending you and your friend love and hugs.

Leah said...

How awful. I will pray for your friend, her husband, and their babies.

Foreverhopeful said...

OH my gosh how very very sad. Sometimes life is just so unfair!!! My thoughts are with their family and I'm glad they have such a good friend like you. Thank you for your support and love always.

The Johnson's said...

I am so very sorry for your friend.

I am going through something similuar - my H and I have fertility problems and it took us 3.5 years to become pregnant, we just lost our little one as well.

There are no words that will comfort your friend, but letting her know that you are there for her to hug her, listen to her and love her.

I'm so sorry this is happening. You, your friend and your families are in my thoughts.


Tarah

sarah23 said...

Oh, that is terrible news!! I am so sorry for your friend and her husband.

seattlegal said...

That is horrible news. I wish I could understand why such things happen. I am so sorry for your friend.